Dear mom,
Like every normal girl, I was excited about
marriage right from my childhood days.
I never
thought beyond the time that I would spend
happily with my prince charming. But today
when I am married, I realize that marriage is
not all roses. It’s not just about being with your
beloved and having a gala time. There is so
much more to it. It comes with its own share of
responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and
compromises. I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up and ready before
everyone else in the family. I can’t laze around
in my pyjamas throughout the day. I am
expected to be presentable every time. I can’t
just go out anytime I want to. I am expected to
be sensitive to the needs of the family. I just
can’t hit the bed anytime I want to. I am
expected to be active and around the family. I
can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am
supposed to take care of everyone else in the
family. And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get
married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom.
Sometimes I think of coming back to you and
getting pampered again. I want to come home to
my favorite food cooked by you every evening
after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep
on your laps like I have no worry in this world.
But then I suddenly realize, had you not got
married and made such sacrifices in your life, I
wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories
to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all
this becomes clear- to return the same comfort,
peace and happiness to my new family that I got
from you. And I am sure that as time would
pass, I would start loving this life equally as you
do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and
compromises you made. They give me the
strength to do the same. Love you.
It's an excellent letter for all daughters.